It's not about positive or negative, it's about preference.

(I felt led to write about this in a moment where time is limited. Keep in mind, it‘s casual and laid back.)

Frequently, when people become enlightened or at least aware of the fact we create our own reality, the main issue that people struggle with is being "positive." To be "positive" in their perspective means we must push away and silence the "negative" in order to get what we want. This is the furthest from the truth. Now, most people don't really know what it really means to be "positive" anyway and simply they are just using their own desires to state how they think the world should be. Honestly, that is somewhat delusional.

Life is NOT about being "positive" by forcing yourself to love everyone and go on your with your day. It's not as torturous as, turn a blind eye to the "negative" and constantly affirm "positive" things. You see, that mindset elimates the acceptance of variety and keeps one in the constant state of judgment. Judgment of others and judgment of self.The reason why I kept putting "positive" and "negative" in quotes because that is all subjective even if majority people agree on most. But still, in the essence of life and from the God Perspective, that is still judgment. It is also the complete opposite of what life is about. Most individuals that have a "spiritual awakening experience" tend to try way too hard to be positive that they actually become resistant to themselves and life in general thus manifesting the complete opposite of what is wanted for their life.

What if I told you right now to FUCK the positive and FUCK the negative and to obsess over preference? Yes, I just cussed. Fuck it. lol. Seriously, stop trying to figure out why there is negative in existence and what one must do to be positive and quit trying to act like as if we all live on a cloud void of any dynamic. That isn't what being a physical human creation is about. It's about creating from this dynamic of variety our own unique perspective though our own unique preference. Positivity and negativity are just components like a male/female component to a plug. Each does different things but yet needs the other.

So what the hell does all this preference thing mean anyway, Scott? Simple. We all have an array of preferences in the general context of our lives, as well as, an array of preferences for each individual circumstances we experience or wish to. If we make our preferences the main goal and focus of our lives, we will completely be and expand who we truly are. Without judgment. Focusing on personal preference will reveal how "positive" you really are at the core. That definition of positive energy is love. So stop using terms that refer to components and focus on preference and that which you love. Period. Let the dichotomy in your life reveal to you what you are doing that is preventing your preference and love.

For example: If you were to ask yourself, regardless of the situation: "What do I prefer here?" You would instantly be clear if the situation or circumstance is truly what you want and you will then allow yourself to conjure the action necessary to get what you want. If the circumstance isn't what you want, the action necessary to disconnect would be obvious and easy to execute. The mind will only know how to get what you want when you know what it is, because the focus isn't on whether it is right or wrong. The focus is on moving forward the way you prefer. Once more: it's about personal preference, and in that mindset, you know what is "right" or "wrong" for YOU and the action will be inspired. as long as you don't contradict or have reservation with your desires/preferences. Then, the path ahead to create would just be obvious and easy to flow with.

The main thing that I come across in all my sessions are, people damning themselves or others based off of "being positive" or not and then completely forgetting about personal preference. Focusing on others behaviors and judging the situations which then keeps a person bound to it. That is then the reason why people can't let go.

We cannot make our lives based and centered around everyone else, rather, our lives need to be centered around self. Yes, be self centered. The only people that would ever call you self centered in a negative content, are those who are only focused on themselves and need YOU to center THEM. lol. Being centered with self is not equivalent with arrogance. One who is centered with self, is content and need not to judge or degrade another. Once you achieve the center with self, then you will illuminate to others and you will simply lead by example without even trying. Naturally, you will share your light and that is the real and only true way to make a difference to others. Trying to help someone does nothing.. Trying anything keeps you trying. Mastering something creates a master. Anything that you are challenged with, tell yourself you are mastering it, not "trying" (insert violin here).

So remember, Everything you do should be a preference and if your own behavior isn't what you prefer, allow the negative experience to reveal to you the negative perspective you have of self. Everything in your world is a reflection of you and the signs are all around. People ask me all the time why they dont get signs. I simply say: each relationship, condition, experience, joy, frustration and sadness you experience day to day ARE the signs. The true change begins when you ask yourself, "is it what I prefer?"